Just popping in; still cleaning and reorganizing! But I wanted to share something with the young, unmarried Catholic women I know:
If you are unsure whether the gentleman you are dating will make a good Catholic husband and father or not, invite him to your parents' home and ask him to help you put together a piece of furniture. The more pieces, the more confusing the instructions, the better!
Thad has been passing the "put-together furniture test" with flying colors for fifteen years now. Even as the girls have taken over mom's role (e.g., holding pieces upright so they can be attached to other pieces, helping to find the missing side "G" which is somewhere in the pile of random pieces, passing Thad the proper tools, or hunting for them in the garage or toolbox, etc.), Thad still attacks each job of furniture-assembly with a kind of calm competence (and occasional on-target complaints about the design or workmanship of the piece in question) that I find amazing.
Trust me, young women: it may be more important to your possible future with a young man that he be capable of turning a flat box of materials into a dresser, bookshelf, nightstand etc. than you can possibly realize!